6 to 8 months before your weddingSchedule a consultation with Paper & Posh at our Media, Pennsylvania location to browse our portfolio of wedding invitations and design your perfect invitation! 6 months before your wedding Place your order for your invitation proofs (this requires a 50% deposit of the total estimate and finalization of all details, so please plan accordingly with your other vendors). At this time, if applicable, please also make a reservation with a calligrapher to hand letter your invitations (we have plenty of recommendations!). 5 months before your wedding Approve electronic or paper proofs so your invitations can be printed. 4 months before your wedding Assemble your wedding invitations. If applicable, deliver your envelopes to your calligrapher. Order all day-of stationery including menus, place cards, table numbers, hashtag signs, drink signs, donation cards, programs, hotel bag insert cards. Also order thank you notes so they are ready when you return from your honeymoon. 2 months before your wedding Weigh, stamp, and take your invitations to the post office to be hand cancelled and mailed.